Most of you wouldn’t be able to decide which title (particular or picky) suits you best. So what is the next best thing to do? Choose the one which sounds better. I see this happening far too often, but as soon as you ask someone what does it mean to be “A” or “B”, they fall short of being able to confidently answer you in the same confidence used to title themselves.
What’s my point?
My point is try to understand your the titles you give yourself and the names you associate yourself with because although you may not understand the words, the titles and names don’t lose their meaning to accommodate your lack of understanding.