Category Archives: On Love

The Imperfection In Your Eyes


Your eyes can be tainted by both the past that no longer exists and the future that does not yet exist. Some would say that past experiences help better ones judgement but ask a person who clothed what was new with what was old, and they’ll tell you that past experiences can also cloud ones judgment.

Take someone for who they are, and from that point, learn what you can about them. You might look at it as giving them a chance, but in reality, you’re actually giving yourself the chance you deserve. 

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That Smile


The other type of smile is an inviting one.

What makes this smile so significant is that the person who gave it to you needn’t be in close proximity or on your mind at the time of the smile. You smile because they have become a part of you. If a soul mate is a person who is an addition to what is already good in your life, then this smile is the stamp confirming it. Continue reading That Smile

5 Reasons Why I Gave Up Sex For Lent


I think it would be more correct to say, ‘5 reasons why WE gave up sex for lent’, seeing as this insane choice of abstinence was not a lone decision, but instead one of the most sane joint decisions my lady and I have made to date.

It all began before lent. Obviously. While the weather was still deciding whether it would give up rain or sun for lent, I too was contemplating what to give up. You see, I didn’t just want to give up something I knew I could easily avoid and then claim gratitude for going 40 days without it, no. I wanted to give something I would find it hard to go without, but with the end result being a lesson learnt through discipline. This rendered things such as, particular type of foods (which is usually the obvious option) and simply not going out as insignificant. I needed something more specific. Something more challenging. If you haven’t already guessed, I am in a committed relationship with an amazing lady, so I thought that since an important aspect of our relationship is to help better each other, why don’t we give up something together!? Genius! Yet, the ‘what’ was still unchecked. Continue reading 5 Reasons Why I Gave Up Sex For Lent

Getting Over That Someone

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If you have never found it difficult to let go of someone, then you have never loved someone.

If we run down the list of most painful experiences in life, you are sure to find toothaches and by popular female demand, child birth. There will be one experience that is likely to go unnoticed and to some people it might be debatable but those who have loved or have come even remotely close to loving another person will agree that getting over someone isn’t just one of the most painful experiences in life, but is also in the top tier for one of the most difficult experiences in life.
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Why I Love High Maintenance Women


I’ve always had a thing for high maintenance women, and if I’m honest, I believe that there should be more of them around. Contrary to popular belief, its the high maintenance type of woman that makes men work harder. Women readily complain about the lack of work in today’s modern man, and despite his efforts in obtaining a decent job and hustling day or night to sustain a decent living, they don’t seem satisfied, which in turn, leads to a natural desire for more. And as a man that loves to cater to a high maintenance woman, I support their desire for more! Continue reading Why I Love High Maintenance Women

Butterflies vs Moths


Let me make one thing clear from the beginning: acting on intuition is not the same as acting on assumption.

Allow me to place this into context.

People often mistaken acting on intuition for acting on assumption. But who could blame them? We live in a world where facts are the new truth and what you believe is truth is well, what you believe, right?
Institutions such as school require people to prove their answers with documented facts. All legal battles that are heard via a type of judiciary system require documented facts. To get a job in many part of the world, proof of experience is required in the form of documented facts! But the truth is, not all facts are truth. Continue reading Butterflies vs Moths