Category Archives: On Love

A Man’s Code

I’m one of the many people who actually admire the film fast and furious. I mean, what isn’t there to like? Fast cars, women who can fight without pulling weave or hair, but above most, men who fight for what they believe in. I loved the idea of having a code to live by. Many people already have their code which could be their religion or whatever they place faith in. But that code is general and in my opinion, less relative to you. I asked myself what my code is, and it didn’t take me long to realise the code I live by is love. I don’t just say that… I think it, I dream it, I live it and I protect it.


Expectations Mirrored

It’s to my understanding that we currently live in a world where so long as you have no expectations, you have mentally signed a contract that protects you against disappointments. So in light of this, expectations are lowered, and in turn, or shall I say theoretically, we are less likely to be disappointed. The mistake men and women make during this process is that instead of lowering their expectations, they have high expectations for the opposite sex to disappoint. In contrast to common belief, most people that tend not to have expectations are those that cannot handle the pressures of being expected from. Continue reading Expectations Mirrored

Why Chase What You Already Have

For years, love has been often perceived as something people seek throughout life. People readily dream of one day finding love in another person and thus, finding happiness and contentment. Everyone wants something but those who don’t seek to understand what they want will have a tougher time dealing with the fact that they don’t yet have it.

Allow me to place this in to context…

Love is supposed to be given, not chased. To give love, you must have love. The easiest way to accomplish this is to love yourself.


The Levels of Dating

Dating is not a word that people are unfamiliar with. Although, it is a word that people are careful with when associating themselves with it. This tends to be because of the many definitions that surround dating. When it comes to dating in cities where the culture, social groups, values and race are extremely diverse, it should be no surprise that dating harbours just as many definitions as an uncertain man has reasons to avoid commitment. Continue reading The Levels of Dating

Are You Picky Or Particular

Most of you wouldn’t be able to decide which title (particular or picky) suits you best. So what is the next best thing to do? Choose the one which sounds better. I see this happening far too often, but as soon as you ask someone what does it mean to be “A” or “B”, they fall short of being able to confidently answer you in the same confidence used to title themselves.

What’s my point?
My point is try to understand your the titles you give yourself and the names you associate yourself with because although you may not understand the words, the titles and names don’t lose their meaning to accommodate your lack of understanding.


Sex Is Overrated… But Only In The Wrong Context

What’s the use in protecting or reserving something that no longer holds value? Sex is at the forefront of our world in a variety of forms, and with each form being readily accessible to many, it’s no surprise the value of sex has dropped… tremendously. Let’s begin with getting the good side to sex out of our systems. Continue reading Sex Is Overrated… But Only In The Wrong Context

Physical Strength vs Emotional Integrity


A woman’s heart is such a fragile thing. It’s no surprise that when a woman senses it’s a predator (a man of some sort) who may harbour the intention of using the heart as means to explore other areas of her being, she may slow the progression of the romantic venture to enable an assessment of a mans strength prior to pouring out her emotions. His emotional strength that is. Continue reading Physical Strength vs Emotional Integrity